One-to-many relationship not ordered as expected

Hello all; I am using a one-to-many relationship.  I have a Claim (one), in a relationship with Lines (many), but the Claim is storing a list of Lines IDs, rather than the Lines storing the Claim Id.  This seems upside down, and not what I expected.

Class Claim

{
    Relationship ClaimLineRel as ClaimLine [Cardinality = many, Inverse = Claim];
}

Class ClaimLine
{
    Relationship Claim as Claim [ Cardinality = one, Inverse = ClaimLineRel, OnDelete = cascade];
    Index ClaimIndex on Claim;
}

But the storage globals for Claim show data in the ClaimLine spot:

^ClaimD(1)=$lb("",$lb(2,3)... etc.)

while the ClaimLine storage has nothing int he Claim spot:

^ClaimLineD(2) = $lb("","",... etc)

How can I force the relationship to use the Claim as the "parent' without using a parent-child relationship?  

Id like to be able to use the SQL:

Thanks,

Laura